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01/18/07

A day in the life of a busy mom- part two

Posted by : Erin H in Transracial/Transcultural Adoption Blog at 09:39 am , 691 words, 54 views  
Categories: Family Life, Large Families
Continued...

12:10 p.m. I read a book to Belane and Marcus (10 Terrible Dinosaurs) three or four times, although the last few times they just want to skip to the end where they can growl and wake each other up. :)

12:30- Changed Marcus’s diaper and put him down for a nap.

12:34- Had Belane go potty and put her down for a nap. I left the room to her door open and folded laundry, and by the time I was done, she was asleep.

12:45- Had some lunch…bagel and cream cheese, apple and yogurt. Read some blogs and checked email.

1:15-2p.m.-Worked on blog posts on hair care.

2 p.m.-Belane woke up…we snuggled.

2:30- I went out to sign Maggie and Amanda off of the preschool bus.

2:30-2:45- Talked to the girls about their day, unpacked their backpacks, got them settled in my bed with Belane to watch Cinderella (the girls always need a rest after preschool).

3 p.m. - My “big” kids got off of the bus (without Mercy, who stayed after for math help.)

3-3:30- I unloaded backpacks, had Des and Nate do their math sheets, talked to kids about their day, gave everyone a snack.

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3:32-Marcus woke up…changed his diaper and gave him a snack.

3:35-Josh brought Mercy home and spent a few minutes with the kids.

3:35-4:15- I finished up my posts on hair care, while helping Mercy with her homework, while the girls finished their movie and the big kids played.

4:15- 5- Had Shane, Ben and Des get their baths done while I started dinner (double batch of hamburger helper, biscuits and carrot sticks, with cookies for dessert). Ryan and Nate got in the shower (not together). :) The little girls played dress up and the boys had lots of Legos going on.

5:15-5:30- Kids set the table and all sat down to dinner.
6 p.m. - Mercy got in shower and everyone else went off to do their 30 minutes of reading. I cleaned the kitchen. Nathan (who is on extra chore duty) emptied garbages and the dishwasher.

6:25- Mercy started reading. I started vacuuming upstairs and down.

6:30- Everyone took turns brushing teeth…some kids watched TV, some kids played. The boys needed several “reminders” not to be too wild.

6:55- Mercy got done reading and had the little kids play in her room with the karaoke machine. Belane sang “Twinkle Twinkle” and Marcus sang the “ABC” song… Maggie and Amanda did some sort of dancing, flag waving variety show.

7 p.m. - My best friend called, we talked about 15 minutes (really good for us!)

7:30-7:45- We all hung out in the living room.

7:45- Started family prayers

7:57-The eight big kids went off to bed, and Marcus, Belane and I went room to room to tuck them in and say good night.

8:08-8:30- I got the little two into their pajamas and they ran around like lunatics chasing each other.

8:30- Belane got her three night time medications

8:35- Put Marcus to bed.

8:40- Put Belane to bed (in my bed)…I cuddled with her for 10 minutes and then said good night. I never heard a peep out of her.

8:50- I got on the computer…caught up on my favorite blogs, answered emails and did some writing for my blog. I also had three articles to write for our newspaper.

10:45 p.m. I got ready for bed.

11p.m. - I called Josh to see when he was coming home.

11:15- Josh finally got home and we went to bed.

Tuesday is one of two days each week (Monday and Tuesday) that Josh works really long, obnoxious hours, but the trade off is that Wednesday, Thursday and Friday are very relaxed and he can come and go as he pleases and spends lots of time with us.

Tuesday is also a day without any activities for the kids, which is nice…no running around. This was a good day… no body was sick, no major catastrophes, the kids were well behaved…

There you go. A day in the life of me. :)

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Anne [Member] Email · http://wmfamily.typepad.com
Okay, Im going back to bed after reading that. Whew!
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 09:51
Comment from: Susan [Member] Email · www.readingwritingliving.wordpress.com
Holy Toledo. Wow.

I'm awestruck, and exhausted. I think you can do this because you are so darn young and still have tons of energy. I am almost 20 yrs older than you and the thought of a day like this would send me into an institution.
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 10:15
Comment from: Erin H [Member] Email · http://transracial.adoptionblogs.com/
Ok...is this really that different than the day of most moms?? Fixing meals, getting kids clean, getting everyone out the door on time...

I really didn't think this was too crazy of a day!!
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 10:50
Comment from: Alison Y [Member] Email · http://www.bamboosoup.com/
Hi there Erin,

I have been reading your blog for awhile now and I have been too lazy to register and say hi. Well, after reading your day in the life, I figured that I couldn't possibly be so lazy anymore. I am the mom of one 8-month old and am trying to convince my husband that our second should come from the heart and not the womb :-) In the meantime, you have inspired me to sponsor a child from AHOPE for my birthday. My friends and family have been sending me checks for this instead of gifts this year and I couldn't be any happier. I think that you rock!
Ali
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 11:45
Comment from: Reba [Member] Email
Erin, you are amazing. I am not even close to that busy but have learned that a schedule is vital (and that is hard for a free wheeling/from the hip gal like me...).

No wonder you are such a good mamma...
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 12:40
Comment from: Holly [Member] Email · http://africa-adoption.adoptionblogs.com
Erin, writing it out is exhausting, but it doesn't look that different to me. I'm amazed you don't do more driving around - that part drives me nuts. My day starts at 5:30 am and the only quiet is right now with the baby down for a nap and the other kids in school. ;) But a schedule? Routine, maybe, but not really a schedule. . . .
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 13:08
Comment from: hebbyhoo [Member] Email
Thank you for the reminder that it is really ok to yell at children in the bath for overly splashing. Doesn't that always happen. I love your blog.
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 14:07
Comment from: Erin H [Member] Email · http://transracial.adoptionblogs.com/
Holly, the driving around is where Josh is a HUGE help (he works just a 3 miles from our hosue). It started when Marcus was a baby, on oxygen, and taking 4-6 hours of nap a day because he slept poorly at night (he still, at almost 3 year old, take a 2-3 hour nap a day, sometimes longer). I couldn't leave him home alone and didn't want to wake him, so Josh started doing all the "kid driving". We also try not to schedule TOO many things, which I know is easier when they are younger. Right now they all do Tae Kwon Do (and our school district has a bus to take the kids there right from school so we only have to pick them up) and then Boy Scouts and Activity Days through church, both of which the kids can take the bus to and their leaders drive them home. The only other thing we have is the little girls' preschool, and they get the bus for the way home, so we only have to drive them there. Not too bad.

I have found that meals, naps and bedtimes need to be on a schedule for us...I don't vary the time on those by much at all, I always try to be home for them, etc. The stuff in between isn't structured much. Seems to keep everyone happy.

I honestly don't feel like this is tons more to do than we I had two or three little ones... (and yes, writing it all out was much more work than I thought it would be!!!!)

E
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 14:13
Comment from: Tana W. [Member] Email · http://lds.adoptionblogs.com
I always think my days seem more exhausting if I break them down like this and consider all the individual things I've done. When I'm in the midst of it all, it doesn't seem too difficult, at least most days. ;o)

You're lucky that Josh can help so much with driving. I'm with Holly - that's the worst part!
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 14:20
Comment from: Coley S. [Member] Email · http://open.adoptionblogs.com
Compared to you my day would be BORING! Gosh, I got tired just reading that but it sure was interesting.
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/07 @ 15:10
Comment from: jen [Member] Email · www.learningpatience.wordpress.com
Erin,

I too am tired after just reading that . . . but when I go back and sort of dissect it, no, it's not too different that what most moms do. You just make a whole lots more food and do tons more laundry . . . but I find it encouraging that your days sounds so "normal" - thanks!
PermalinkPermalink 01/19/07 @ 20:17
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