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I realize I write a lot about hair. I am the mother of four girls and I have never been a hair person. I didn’t like styling my hair in junior high or high school and still have a love-hate relationship with my own hair. Raising four girls, two with straight, thin light brown hair and two with textured, dark and curly hair I have learned a lot in the past few years. More than I ever wanted to know actually. My closet is full of products, accessories and heating appliances.
I also know that hair is sensitive for the transracial family, and have even heard that the “fear” of textured hair has kept people from transracial adopting. I do my best to share what I have learned as well as my mistakes to inspire and help other families like mine. I am far from an expert, but I love my kids and don’t want them to suffer because of my “hair ignorace”.
This week I read two great articles, both revolving around hair. The first one is about having Michelle Obama in the White House and how that has caused people to notice the different styles a woman of color can do with her hair. A good read that points out things that many of us “peach” people have never realized before. The other article was sent out in the Adoption.com’s e-newsletter. Wonderful styling tidbits for textured hair that are very helpful to us newbie moms and dads!
I’ll pass along a new thing I have recently tried. This week I have been singing the joys of Coconut Oil. I’ve heard many times that it is good on hair and skin and is a very healthy alternative to creams and lotions with chemicals and possible hormones in them. I finally bought some and love it. The girls like it so much better than the lotion I normally have them use. It also has a great shine on the hair.
A few things I have learned with Coconut Oil. If your child is wearing her hair straight, be sure not to use as much as you would on curly hair. I over-oiled Enu’s hair today and it was very apparent. Also, be sure to rub it in your hands to warm it, or warm it in water first. The oil solidifies and can make clumps around the roots of the hair.
Any hints for me?
Photo Credit Mandy W 2009
OMG! Thrilled that I have found you.
I adopted a beautiful African American baby girl (domestic adoption). She’s now 4 1/2 months old–and I MUST find products to her hair. I have been using regular baby shampoo up until now–and no conditioner (ugh!). Her hair is curly, healthy and beautiful–but I know that I must start using the correct products on it.
I was told Carol’s Daughter was a great line of products–specifically the Rosemary Mint shampoo and Hair Milk. Any thoughts!!???
Thank you in advance!