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Transracial/Transcultural Adoption Blog

02/26/07

Lessons in transracial parenting

Posted by : Erin H in Transracial/Transcultural Adoption Blog at 02:53 pm , 383 words, 91 views  
Categories: Articles
As adoptive parents, I think one of the best things that we can do (and one of our obligations to our children) is to educate ourselves the best we can on the issues involved in transracial adoption, and the things that our children may experience and feel as they are growing up.

One of the best ways to do this is to listen to the voices of adult adoptees…hearing what was positive in their lives growing up and what was negative, and hearing about their challenges and blessings offers us priceless insight. Things have changed a lot since the first transracial adoptions in the U.S. over 20 years ago, and they have changed for the better, but there is still plenty of progress to be made and lessons to be learned.

Colors NW Magazine has a cover story for the month of February titled, “Shades of Transracial Adoption -Challenges and joys color experience for adult adoptees”.


The article shares experiences of adult adoptees, both good and bad, but does so in the spirit of better preparing parents who are considering transracial adoption, and advocates for educated and well-prepared adoptive parents.

Here is a quote from the article…
For Jeffrey and other transracial adoptees, conversations around culturally competent, respectful parenting are desperately needed to begin the process of creating healthy homes for the disproportionately high number of foster kids of color who are languishing in the system. These important issues and questions must get raised so that more children will be able to be adopted into stable, culturally aware homes – with parents of all backgrounds.

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There is a lot of good stuff in this article…give it a read! I love that is gives a very balanced look at transracial adoption… it is not against it, and yet it is not blindly supportive of it either. It acknowledges and supports transracial adoption as a legitimate way to build a family, and yet calls attention to a variety of the issues that parents in a transracial family should be prepared for. It also gives a lot of advice. Again…good stuff.

There is also a wonderful video that goes along with article that you can see on YouTube here. It has interviews with adoptees, adoptive parents and adoption professionals talking about transracial adoption.

Enjoy.


Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Susan [Member] Email · www.readingwritingliving.wordpress.com
Erin, I really appreciate your openness in listening to the voices of adult TRAs. Not every adoptive parent is so open and it is really such a gift for your children. Hey, I also wanted to extend an invitation for you, your family and your readers to come to Pact Family Camp, which is especially for adoptive families who are parenting children of color. I would LOVE to meet you and your family.
http://www.pactadopt.org/events/camp.html
PermalinkPermalink 02/26/07 @ 15:55
Comment from: Reba [Member] Email
Erin, come to PACT camp and visit me... :-) We were going to go last year but Norah showed up... :-)

I love the pictures of Belane from the last post. SO GREAT.

I feel that we have come a long way in terms of understanding how we can help our children be great adults and give them as little bad baggage as possible and as much GREAT baggage as we can.... I thought that all familes did this but I guess I am wrong (the above comment leads me to believe that many parents don't do this?).

Your family is a great example to all of us. Great updates
PermalinkPermalink 02/26/07 @ 18:56
Comment from: romee_1101 [Member] Email
Great article. Thanks for referencing it!

Romee
PermalinkPermalink 02/26/07 @ 21:15
Comment from: s [Member] Email
What a good read. Thanks!
PermalinkPermalink 02/27/07 @ 16:34
Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
Fascinating article, but am I the only one who wants to cry each time they write articles that make it seem like only white people want to adopt transracially?
But it gives me more to think about...
PermalinkPermalink 03/06/07 @ 20:09
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